Chet and his wife Toni take a minute before packing up their truck after a full day of building a fence on Eddie Woods' farm. "I can give ultimately all to my children but I deprive my wife of what she needs and you can't do that. You have to give God your first and I have to make Toni my first. Because the way that I love her is the way that I will love my children. And when I give her love and respect, I'll actually earn more love and respect from my children."